Dress to Kill

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CEXx will be hosting our next fundraising party on Saturday the 6th of April at Casa Kink - the theme: Dress to Kill…. the options are endless so make sure you stand out!  

Cum one come all to an evening and night of self expression and play. Use your fantasies and imagination to cougar up an image of yourself that will drop others to the floor and bring your darkest desires with you. Casa Kink will open its doors once again and the CEXx crew welcomes you to come and play. The evening will kick off around 8pm and continue long into the night. 

We will have a few other surprises in store for you, so please make sure to bring along a pocket full of R5 coins if you want to have some extra fun! More details coming soon.  

DETAILS: 

Venue: Casa Kink in Durbanville. 

Date: Saturday 6th April 

Time: 8pm - 2am 

Theme: Dress To Kill 

Cost: R150 a ticket all funds go towards the CEXx camp at AfrikaBurn

SPACES & EQUIPMENT AVAILABLE 

* outdoor social area 

* indoor social areas (lounge and kitchen) 

* Jacuzzi  

* a St Andrew’s Cross

* a spanking bench

* a massage table 

* a room with a tantric chair for either private or public play (door open/door closed - whichever you are comfortable with)

* a room for either private or public play (door open/door closed - whichever you are comfortable with)

* a voyeur room with a king size bed (door to remain open and people encouraged to watch)

* a secluded indoor cuddle puddle room for cuddling and a shared space for sexual exploration

* an area set aside for rope play

* aftercare and cuddle areas

* and a number of other public play areas some of which have restraint points

Please note this is an over 18 only party as it will include some sexually explicit play.

BRING: Your lust and desires, your play toys, condoms and lube. If you are planning on sharing toys please make sure you have enough condoms to cover the toys to keep things clean and hygienic. You are also encouraged to bring snacks, drinks and your swimming towel if you wish to take a dip in the pool or enjoy the jacuzzi.

PLEASE NOTE: As this is a public party we will have a strict no illegal drugs policy. We will allow alcohol but strongly discourage play under the influence and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these.

THEME: The theme for the party is Dress to Kill and we are asking everyone to please dress up or down for the festivities… this is a safe space to express and explore! 

SNACKS AND DRINKS: Please note that some light snacks will be provided at the party. Having fun is hungry work, so please bring a plate of snacks to share at the event, please try to be a little creative in what you bring so it’s not all chips and dips. 

Please bring your own drinks, there is NO BAR! Please note that drunk or disorderly people will be asked to leave. If you are planning to play please remain sober in order to ensure that you are in a position to play safely, sanely and consensually.

GENERAL INFORMATION: Please note this is an adult only party with high levels of sexually explicit play. Both nudity and sexual play are encouraged, but by no means required. If witnessing overt sexual behaviour makes you uncomfortable, we would recommend you stick to the inside social areas (lounge, dining room and kitchen).

There is no smoking within the house, but there will be ample seating outside around the pool, and smokers are welcome to make use of the front balcony next to the lounge.  

If you plan to participate in any such sexual play, please ensure you bring appropriate protection and ensure you take adequate steps to communicate and protect both yourself and your play partners. 

Please practice Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) BDSM at all times. We have identified a few Consent Monitors (sometimes known as dungeon monitors) who will be available on the night to help to ensure that play is safe and fun and that there are people who can assist and advise if anyone has ANY concerns at all, if anyone feels at any point that a scene is unsafe or that their limits have been disrespected. consent monitors can be identified by their gold armbands.

No photographs without the explicit of consent of EVERYONE who will appear in the image, be aware of those standing in the background.  

The party is being hosted in a residential area, you are asked to park alongside the park across the road from Casa Kink and to please be considerate of the neighbours when arriving and leaving.

We practice AfrikaBurn principles including Leave No Trace, so please clean up after yourself. This includes clearing up the play areas when you are done in them. Throw away any disposables, remake the beds, or tidy the sheets. Please take your glasses to the kitchen and load them in the dishwasher. Throw tins, glass, plastic and paper in the recycle bin and other rubbish in the bin. Please help to clear up as much as possible.

MORE ABOUT CEXx: CEXx stands for Consensual, Educational, Xploration of seX. Now in our fourth year, we are a group of friends and allies creating a camp at AfrikaBurn, focusing on workshops and talks during the day, and providing a discreet, sex-positive camp with restricted, adult-only access at night.

From the educational perspective CEXx aims to grow understanding around sex positivity ranging from understanding gender and sexual orientation, consent, safe sexual practices, relationship styles and kink.

Take a look at our Facebook page (facebook.com/CEXxAfrikaburn) for more information.

Looking forward to seeing you there.

CODE OF CONDUCT

1. CONSENT - ask before you engage in any kind of play including light physical touch. Communicate consent verbally at all times. If anything non-consensual or unsafe occurs please let a DM or the party organisers know. 

2. SAFETY - communicate before, during and after any play you may partake in, ask about each other's current physical/mental/emotional state. At all times work within the guidelines of SSC/RACK/PRICK.

3. COMMUNICATION - between anyone playing or present at the party, but also with the event organiser. 

4. ANONYMITY - People don't want to be photographed/recorded. Obtain express consent (noting people that may be in the background) beforehand. Respect this and delete pics if asked. Don't out people who attend the event - if you see someone you know, and they want to be anonymous in the space, respect each other and be discreet.

6. SUBSTANCES - NO illegal drugs or substance permitted, as it puts the user, everyone attending as well as the organizers at risk of prosecution.

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